the embarrassment of wanting what you want

and the haunting side effects of extended girlboss-ification

Apr 30 • sarah dewald

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75% of women believe clothes can change how they feel. so why aren't they using them?

the final part of the style study. the data surprised me. Raye confirmed it.

Apr 7 • sarah dewald

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March 2026

94% protection. 6% play. We need to talk.

I spent $300 to survey 175 women. Consider this a state of emergency. (Part 3 of 4)

Mar 29 • sarah dewald

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Charlotte York was right, I fear

re: the final stage of the woo-woo pipeline

Mar 17 • sarah dewald

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February 2026

The nervous system of entering NYFW without credentials

Why exposure rewires hierarchy faster than an invite

Feb 28 • sarah dewald

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January 2026

A post-mortem on autopilot dressing

What 175 women reveal about ease and pleasure (Part 2 of 4)

Jan 13 • sarah dewald

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This is not a fashion dataset

I spent $300 to ask women how getting dressed feels (Part 1 of 4)

Jan 5 • sarah dewald

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December 2025

Quiet luxury isn't about style.

Beige with better PR? Not quite.

Dec 30, 2025 • sarah dewald

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32 things I learned by the time I turned 32

If you only read a few, start with #10, #19 and #32.

Dec 20, 2025 • sarah dewald

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On dressing the interior woman

A kitchen conversation about accuracy, embodiment, and finally dressing for the inside.

Dec 18, 2025 • sarah dewald

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On the mysterious competence of the universe

A study in release, recalibration, and the shocking accuracy of cosmic timing.

Dec 7, 2025 • sarah dewald

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November 2025

Yes is a frequency

A meditation on instinct, direction, and the quiet pull of truth.

Nov 30, 2025 • sarah dewald

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